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What would your answer be if you were in a pageant?
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For all the Dads out there, Happy Father’s Day!
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GayTravel.com’s Gay Travel Guru does Thailand!
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There are few things as exciting as getting to take a top of the line, world-class international trip to one of the most incredible tourist destinations in the world. GayTravel.com’s Gay Travel Guru Bryan Kosarek experienced the thrills of travel recently on his incredible trip to Thailand. Throughout his journey to Bangkok, Chiangmai, and Phuket, the Gay Travel Guru soaked up all Thailand has to offer while scoping out the gay scenes in around these areas for gay travelers everywhere.
After traveling for 27 hours, Bryan arrived in Bangkok and woke up a few hours later to a gorgeous view of downtown- not to mention an open mind and no expectations so as to best experience this beautiful city! His daytime destinations kicked off with the Chattachuk Market which is only held on weekends and has over 10,000 vendors selling everything from artwork to puppies. Even the best travelers get lost though: Bryan spent a good five hours accidentally exploring this rich hotspot in the city which is not a bad place to get stuck for an afternoon.
After frolicking with Bangkok’s people, Bryan got a taste of this city’s notorious architecture and history at the local temple and grand palace. A unique aspect of this temple- the Temple of the Tigers- is the incredible opportunity to play with, feed, and bathe tigers ranging from cubs to three years old! After offering the local monks food and sharing breakfast with them, Bryan indulged his inner animal by soaking up this rare chance to interact with tigers up close and personal. Though this experience is truly hard to top, the rest of Bryan’s travels around Bangkok included a boat ride on a long tail boat through the canals of Bangkok to tour the local architecture and floating markets as well as an incredible spa day at the spa recently ranked best spa in all of Asia!
It would be near criminal to visit Bangkok without hitting up the amazing nightlife there- and the Gay Travel Guru definitely did not disappoint! His Bangkok nightlife experience kicked off with a party at Club Ono which is short for “One Night Only”, housed in Bangkok’s gaybourhood Snow Cowboy. Bryan also went to the very top of Vertigo Bar which is one of the highest points in Bangkok overlooking the entire city. Finally, the Guru rounded off his Bangkok nightlife extravaganza with the city’s notorious Ping Pong shows, Lady Boy shows, and dancing the nights away in the gay bars around town.
After wrapping up his time in Bangkok, Bryan traveled to his next destination Chiangmai which is in northern Thailand. Chiangmai is extremely laid back compared to Bangkok, with less traffic and a very relaxed atmosphere. There, he celebrated Thai New Year at the largest public water fight- and flirt fest- in the world! In addition to this massive celebration for the LGBT community and straight community alike, Bryan got to visit the Chiangmai elephants. Not only did Bryan’s new elephant friends take him for a ride through the jungle, but they ate and painted pictures together too!
The Gay Travel Guru’s next stop on his Thailand tour was Phuket, a little island in the south of Thailand. There, he stayed in a hotel on a glorious hill with cabanas home to their own pools and an intricate network of stairs wrapping through the trees and jungle. He even got his spectatorship on sitting ringside at a Thai boxing match. The main differences between the three Thai destinations Bryan visited is the size and type of lifestyles practiced in each one. Bangkok, with 10 million people, has a vibrant gay scene with endless bars and clubs. In Phuket there is not much of a gay scene aside from other gay people traveling. According to Bryan, Chian Mai was the perfect balance with 2 million people and a handful of gay bars where being gay is accepted but not thrown in your face.
In terms of LGBT travel safety, Bryan reports back that he always felt safe in and around the Thai destinations he visited. He believes that the overall Thai culture is accepting of homosexuality even if it is not openly spoken about. To get around in general, our Guru definitely relied on a wide network of public transportation which he assures is accessible and affordable. There was also a wide acceptance of a variety of languages all of which were very easily accommodated by the Thai people and other travelers alike. While Bryan didn’t end up eating any crazy and exotic foods during his travels, he did indulge in the best of authentic Thai food which put a glorious finishing touch to his first official international Gay Travel Guru trip to Thailand!
By Guest Author Sophie Needelman - GayTravel.com
TV is leading to my weight gain…..well maybe
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I am on vacation right now for the first time in many years. I really can’t count being unemployed a couple of years back as vacation can I?! I don’t really have anything planned or anything, just doing an online course that I am taking, seeing friends, working on my blogs, and catching up on chores long put off till now! After one day, I am making ok progress.
Well, last night after a long day of running around town, seeing my best buddy L, and some studying, I got home for the day. I had done a decent run yesterday morning, so I was feeling pretty good about myself as it related to my calories taken in, versus calories my run and just my day expended. Then I made what I now realize was a BIG mistake, and it’s taken me this long to realize how this always happens.
After I got home last night, I settled into the sofa with laptop in hand. What I planned to do, was watch some TV, catching up on DVR watching. Well, I always feel some guilt if I only watch TV, so I always bring out the laptop, so that is why I had it too! I feel like multi-tasking makes it OK to stop doing what I should be doing, and instead watching TV which is something I could do when my list is smaller.
There I am watching TV, checking e-mails, etc. and then I suddenly get hungry. “Well, I will have some fruit” I tell myself. I proceed to do so, thinking that satisfied me. Then after a while longer, I get hungry again, and take a bag of chips to the sofa. Not a high-fat kind, but a 3.5 serving bag none-the-less. You know what happens next I bet. I EAT the entire bag!
What I learned last night or rather this morning after I woke is this. My multi-tasking is allowing me to have my mind wander. I don’t find the TV watching enveloping or consuming, so I start thinking of other things. Then the internet surfing is not really getting my attention, so it becomes a distraction. Hunger, or what I perceive to be hunger gets into the picture, and then the cupboards are the new target!
Eating and watching TV and surfing is going to end today! From this moment on, it won’t be a task of three, instead a task of one. Watching TV or bust!
I am working too hard to try to get my weight under control and regain my health, to have it undermined by my racing mind! No, more being Mr. Productive, when I can just watch some TV and be Mr. Slug! I think my waist line will thank me for it in the end!
So, do you have this problem? Do you try to do tooooo many things at the same time and find yourself eating yourself into a frenzy? Do you even watch TV?
Are you tracking your weight online? Maybe you should be say researchers
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A Kaiser Permanente study found that 9 pounds was the average weight lost and kept off by users who tracked their weight online for 2 years!
Gays and the LTR
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The LTR, long-term relationship is something that I have always wanted to be in. Something that many of my friends, still single, have always wanted to be in. Not sure why we aren’t, but that’s not the point of this post.…
Ask A Gay Family EP. 9 Monogamy & Crushes
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Why you need either a health care power of attorney or living will
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Play it safe, even though there are some states that allow health care power of attorneys and living wills to be combined, it is still better to draft these as separate documents. Why take the chance of your desires should you be incapacitated not to be followed to the letter!
Make it easier for those you care for and love by keeping the confusion down as to your desires, and thus the tension too!

Last Will And Testament, a photo by Ken_Mayer on Flickr.
A Video – Being a gay man and “dressing” your age
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After the past few days posts where we have been watching great video about the process of adoption by gays and lesbians, I thought that today we might take up a lighter topic. Actually, I’m not really going to take it…


